Peak Trans
PeakTrans Moment…

My PeakTrans moment came when I realised that BOTH groups (MtF and FtM)  want access to womens spaces and this causes them to simultaneously say THE EXACT OPPOSITE about Trans in this way:

MtF: growing up as woman means nothing, I am now a woman and have never felt like a man. Your womaness is meaningless. I am just like a ciswoman. You’re transphobic if you disagree now let me into your womens spaces.

FtM: of course growing up as a female means I can still relate as a woman! I’m now a man but I used to be a woman which means something, I’m not like a cisman in this respect now let me in to your womens spaces.

They expect non-trans to engage in some kind of weird Orwellian doublethink where being Trans means the exact opposite to each other!

It is clear they will lie to get whatever they want to feel special. I just cannot and do not believe them anymore……. One of the two groups is clearly lying!!!!

Peak trans moment was looking through the notes on ladymaxwell’s post about not wanting males in women’s restrooms - and seeing dozens calling her a cunt and a bitch, saying she should be strangled with dicks or run over or should kill herself, all in the name of feminism and ‘womens’ rights. In short, telling her that males and their identities matter more than females, and that abuse is only a problem when it happens to males. These people are just MRAs under a new banner; I see that now.

I feel a bit lost, because I am starting to fear transwomen entering women’s spaces under false pretenses and being a threat to women in general. I still want to support a lot of them, but there are so many bad apples and I feel like the trans* community does nothing to distinguish itself of these people.

I used to think, what harm does it do to let Trans MtoT into women only spaces. And then I started actually meeting these men in women only spaces and was appalled by how uniformly sexist, patronising and domineering they were.

But my peak trans moment was when some young woman (18,19 years old) complained to me that one Trans MtoT kept trying to talk to them about periods and how breasts felt tender. They said they felt incredibly uncomfortable about this. When I talked to him about this, he said it was just girly talk and I was being transphobic to tell him it was inappropriate to talk like this. The young woman’s feelings of course didn’t matter at all!

I then later on saw him dancing at a women’s only disco topless with implanted breasts exposed, while all around other woman were wearing tops.

And I thought, we shouldn’t have to put up with this shit any longer. I still see this same individual on the internet calling out women on their transphobia and I am sure continuing to have no idea of how misogynistic he is.